YOU TOLD YOUR DAUGHTER WHAT?!!!

How can you tell your child to only date a man/woman who has that "paper"? Okay what if he/she is out there robbing, stealing, killing for that money; does it matter? Before you open your mouth please THINK! Okay I have always been told "never settle for less" well sometimes settling for less is better. I say this because women look for a man that is going to take care of them and with this society nothing is ever stabled, so what happens when that man loses his job?! Would you leave him? Would you cheat on him? What would you do? I have heard a mother tell her child to always look for a man to take care of you. It's not always about "being taken care of." As a woman or man, you should always want your own. As a motherless child, I wished someone would have told me that. I have been with my current boyfriend for seven years and he has always done for me and now I am too spoiled. I hate cooking, cleaning, catering to him. He always doing for me and I NEVER do anything for him. After a life-changing experience, I realized this man loves me unconditionally and I should treat him the same. Relationships are 50/50 not 20/80. How as a mother can you tell your child to allow a man of any stature, as long as he has money, to be with him? What if this man is robbing someone to give his woman all these fine things in life because he lost his job, would it still be okay?